How To Start Over In Life
Many things can be responsible for one’s downfall or stagnation– a failed relationship, lost job, frustrations, health challenges, costly mistakes, loss of a loved one, financial drain… the list goes on. In times like this, moving on is the last thing one would think of. Time stops and that moment feels like an eternity. The sorrow is indescribable, the pain grasps your lungs and help seems like a lifetime away. What do you do? How do you start over?
I believe you’re reading this expecting a step by step guide. If so, I’m afraid you won’t find that here and that’s because the process is different for each individual. However, I can tell you this: pain is inevitable and that’s not going to change. But it is just as inevitable as joy, love, and everything in between. So what do you when you feel stuck? I always say the same thing every time. Trust God, trust the process, and evolve.
You need to know that the thing that breaks you can also mold you into something amazing. Sometimes, pain is the motivation you need to become a better version of yourself. It’s not a great feeling and it’s definitely not something anyone looks forward to but it has its benefits. Think of it as a goldsmith whose job is to make beautiful gold articles but the only way to successfully do that, is to purify the gold by fire. You are that gold.
If you truly want to start over, change your mindset. It’s not for you to focus on the negatives rather the positives. When you understand that it’s only a process, it becomes easier for you to not only adapt but also rediscover yourself. And when you do, that’s when you begin to see the beauty in your pain. You’ll realize that you’re a step closer to emerging as a beautiful work of art.
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