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7 Types of friends to avoid.
In life we all need someone to be there for us at some point in our lives — that’s why we have friends.
Friends are supposed to be people who help you grow in every aspect of life. They are shoulders you can lean on, they are pillars in your lowest times.
However, not all friends are actually friends. Here are 7 types of friends you need to avoid if you want a happier life.
The Narcissistic Friend
You certainly do not need this kind of friend in your life. This is the person that is narcissistic in nature. What this means is that such a person has an inflated sense of importance, a strong need for excessive attention and admiration. This kind of person is selfish and has no empathy. If you want a happier life, avoid this person.
The Sadistic Friend
This is the kind of person that enjoys inflicting pain on people. Such a person wants people to suffer. This kind of friend is never happy when you thrive or succeed. The sadistic friend will do anything to bring you down. This is the kind of friend that can go as far as digging into your past to bring out a buried secret that will cost you everything including your happiness.
The Manipulative Friend
This kind of friend doesn’t really care about you nor do they care about the things that bother you. All a manipulative person is interested in is what they can get from you. Such a person is usually familiar with ones weaknesses and uses it as a means to get what they want.
In other words, this kind of person enjoys taking advantage of people.
The hypocrite is actually a two faced person. One that will smile with you and turn around to stab you in the back yet still come around to nurse your wound. This is a very dangerous friend to keep. You can refer to this person as a wolf in sheep clothing.
If you are a private person and you don’t want stories of you all over the place, it’s best to avoid such people. The gossip will take your story to the end of the world. Such a person is like a camera — capturing
every move just to expose it to the world. In some cases, they create stories in their heads and spread such information as “truth”. Avoid such a person like a plague.
The Everlasting Complainer/Begger
This type of friend is one who has the habit of always begging and complaining about all the woes in their lives. Such friends are like leeches. They only receive. These ones never take responsibilities for their actions — they always blame it on life. They complain like they are the only ones with life issues. They are never contended with what they have. Such a friend will drain you.
The Wild Friend
The wild friend is the one that pushes boundaries. One that will both make and encourage you to make bad decisions in the name of fun. Should anything go wrong, they bail on you and turn against you. If you want to be happy, do yourself a favour — run away from such.
Did I miss any? Share your thoughts.